These terms are between you and Jacob Abdo, doing business as Jacob Abdo Coaching and BXTCHESAINTSHIT, 9121 Mettetal St, Detroit, MI 48228 ("Jake", "we"). They apply when you pay for the one-on-one coaching program. Ticking the box at checkout means you have read them and agree to them. Questions go to jake@bxtchesaintshit.com before you pay.
Jump to:
1. the program ·
2. booking calls ·
3. what is included ·
4. payments and payment plans ·
5. refunds and the guarantee ·
6. rescheduling and missed calls ·
7. conduct ·
8. results ·
9. call recordings and privacy ·
10. digital access ·
11. termination ·
12. governing law ·
13. contact
1The program
The program is one-on-one dating coaching. It comes in three forms. The one you bought is the one described on your call and named in your welcome email.
- Three months with a coach from Jake's team. Your day-to-day coach is a member of Jake's team. Jake builds your plan from the kickoff call and your coach holds a one-on-one call with you every ten days through the term.
- Three months one-on-one with Jake. Jake coaches you directly for the whole term.
- Twelve months one-on-one with Jake, with quarterly in-person meetings. Jake coaches you directly for a year and meets you in person once a quarter, four times in the year.
The term starts on the date of your first payment. It lasts 90 days on a three-month program and 365 days on the twelve-month program.
2How calls are booked
- After paying, you complete onboarding at jacobabdo.com/on (or jacobabdo.com/onc for the team-coach program). You sign in with Google and answer the assessment.
- Your first call is the kickoff call. On the programs with Jake directly, you book it through the link sent to you. On the team-coach program, the kickoff is a group call held Mondays and Thursdays, directly after the daily group coaching call, on the same link. Jake builds your work plan from that call.
- Your recurring calls are booked during onboarding: with your coach once every ten days on the team-coach program, or with Jake once a week at the same day and time on the programs with Jake.
- Group coaching calls are held every week inside the Skool community at skool.com/ngb.
3What is included
Every program
- A work plan and objectives built by Jake from your kickoff call.
- A complete dating-app profile remake, done through jacobabdo.com/pics.
- A strategy guide for building an aesthetic Instagram presence.
- Review of your text conversations with women: you send the screenshots, you are told what to send back.
Lifetime perks, on every program
These continue after your term ends.
- Lifetime group coaching, led by Jake.
- Lifetime access to Ask JAIK, Jake's AI coach, at jacobabdo.com/gpt.
- Lifetime access to the Skool community.
- Jake's entire digital catalog: every past and future course, free, for life.
- Lifetime access to the private client mastermind chat (Jake, his coaching team and private clients only).
By program
- Team coach: your coach's personal phone number (he answers texts once a day), a seat in the Jake Abdo Inner Circle WhatsApp group with all of Jake's one-on-one clients, and a one-on-one call with your coach every ten days.
- With Jake, three or twelve months: daily texting with Jake, daily voice notes from Jake, your weekly call with Jake, and additional calls with Jake booked through his Calendly link.
- Twelve months: one in-person meeting with Jake every quarter. Location and dates are set on the kickoff call.
4Payments and payment plans
- Payments are processed by Stripe or Shopify. Card numbers never reach our servers.
- You may pay in full, or in two equal payments. On a two-payment plan the second payment is due 30 days after the first.
- On a two-payment plan you are not fully enrolled until the second payment clears. The same payment link you used for the first payment is sent to you again for the second.
5Refund policy and the guarantee
There are no cash refunds. Every payment for the program is final.
The guarantee: do the work. If you are not sufficiently transformed by the end of your term, the coaching continues until you are. Jake decides whether that standard has been met.
The guarantee is the remedy the program offers in place of a refund. It extends the coaching. It does not pay money back. No coach or other team member can change this policy or promise a refund.
6Rescheduling and missed calls
- Calls are booked on Calendly. Every booking confirmation email carries a link to reschedule or cancel. Use it before the call starts.
- If you miss a call, text your coach or Jake to set the next one.
7Conduct
- Treat Jake, the coaching team and the other clients with respect. Threats or harassment toward anyone in the program are not tolerated.
- What other clients share in the Inner Circle group, the mastermind chat, the Skool community and group calls stays there. Do not record, screenshot or post any of it anywhere else.
- Jake's plans, videos, frameworks, scripts and other program materials are for your own use. Do not resell, republish or share them.
8Results
This is coaching. Results depend on what you do with it, so no specific outcome is promised: no number of dates, women, relationships or any other result by any date. The only commitment is the guarantee in section 5.
The program is not therapy and is not medical, psychological, legal or financial advice. If you need that kind of help, see a licensed professional.
9Call recordings and privacy
- Coaching calls are recorded and transcribed, including the kickoff call. Jake builds your work plan from the kickoff transcript.
- Recordings, transcripts and coaching notes are used by Jake and your coach to coach you. They are not published.
- Ask JAIK and the rest of jacobabdo.com are covered by the privacy page.
10Digital access
- Ask JAIK access is granted to the Google account you use for onboarding. Use the same Google account to sign in at jacobabdo.com/gpt.
- The Skool community invite is sent to the email you onboard with.
- Access is personal to you. Do not share your logins.
11Termination
Jake may end your program, and remove you from the group chats and the community, if you break section 7. Under section 5 no refund is owed when that happens.
12Governing law
These terms are governed by the laws of the State of Michigan. If a dispute comes up, email jake@bxtchesaintshit.com first so it can be settled directly.
Changes
If these terms change, the date at the top changes with them.
Jacob Abdo · jake@bxtchesaintshit.com · 9121 Mettetal St, Detroit, MI 48228